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IMT Qiwaam - Vagamon, Kerala

Vagamon, Kerala
July 25-27

It is not just a program—it’s a transformative journey. This journey offers deep insights into building a marriage that is spiritually fulfilling, emotionally resilient, and grounded in Islamic teachings. It combines traditional wisdom with modern-day challenges, preparing young men for a lifetime of responsibility, leadership, and love.

By the end of this journey, participants will have a deeper understanding of their role in marriage, practical tools to navigate the challenges they will face, and the confidence to lead their relationships with maturity, respect, and compassion. With a focus on both the individual’s growth and the collective strength of the family unit, IMT Qiwaam - Vagamon is an essential investment in building strong, faith-centered marriages that contribute to a better world.

For enquiries: +91 85903 76005 (Whatsapp Only)

Key Program Features of QIWAAM

Get ready for an unforgettable journey of self-growth, discipline and deep connection with Allah. QIWAAM isn’t just a program—it’s an experience that will change your life!

1. Tahajjud Under the Stars:

  • A silent night, soft winds, and souls rising in sujood — the perfect setting for reflection and renewal.
  • Experience the tranquility of the night as you connect with Allah in the serene beauty of nature.

2.Trekking to Leadership:

  • A symbolic mountain trek — pushing physical limits while reflecting on the journey of becoming a Qiwwam
  • Physical challenges that mirror the responsibilities of leadership in marriage and family life.

3.Campfire Conversations: The Groom’s Circle:

  • Heartfelt late-night discussions around a warm fire — sharing fears, dreams, and truths about marriage and manhood.
  • Guided by mentors, these sessions will help you build a strong foundation for your future marriage.

4. The Nikah Talk at Sunrise:

  • An early morning session on the purpose of marriage, done at the break of dawn — spiritual and scenic.
  • Understanding the significance of marriage in Islam and how to prepare for it.

5. Silent Reflection Walk:

  • A personal journey through nature in complete silence — for introspection, gratitude, and reconnecting with purpose.
  • Reflect on your life, your goals, and your relationship with Allah.

6. Brotherhood Challenges:

  • Team-based physical and mental tasks that emphasize cooperation, leadership, and the prophetic model of brotherhood.
  • Strengthen your bonds with fellow participants.

7. Letters to my future Wife:

  • Write heartfelt letters to your future wife, expressing your hopes, dreams, and commitments.
  • A journaling activity where participants write a heartfelt, private letter to the woman they hope to marry one day.

8. The Amanah Pledge:

  • A ceremonial moment where the brothers take a symbolic pledge — to protect, provide, and lead with taqwa.

9. The Groom’s Q&A Box:

  • Anonymous questions answered in a no-judgment zone, breaking myths and confronting the real issues men face today.
  • A safe space for brothers to ask questions about marriage, relationships, and personal development.
  • Facilitated discussions to address common concerns and misconceptions.

10. Bonfire Dhikr Night:

  • Gathering around the fire for group dhikr, nasheeds, and reflections — spiritual, emotional, and unforgettable.
  • Experience the power of collective remembrance of Allah.

1. Preparing for marriage

Building clarity about the purpose of marriage, readiness, and alignment with Islamic values.

  • Why Marriage? Purpose, Spirituality & Sunnah
  • Qualities of a Husband in Islam
  • Choosing the Right Spouse: What Really Matters?
  • Istikharah, Tawakkul & Avoiding Red Flags
  • Planning Life, Not Just a Wedding

2. Developing Emotional Intelligence

Learning to manage emotions, empathize, communicate, and connect deeply — essential for any relationship.

  • Understanding Your Emotions & Triggers
  • The Power of Empathy in Marriage
  • Conflict Resolution with Ihsan
  • Managing Expectations, Disappointment & Criticism

3. Islamic Masculinity & Responsibility

Redefining manhood through the Qur’anic role of Qawwam — leadership, protection, service, and discipline.

  • Qawwam: The Protector, Provider & Pillar
  • Real Masculinity vs. Toxic Masculinity
  • Being a Man of Amanah (Trust)
  • Balancing Strength with Softness
  • Discipline, Leadership & Accountability

4. Purity, Desires & Self-Control

Guarding the gaze, managing urges, and approaching marriage with a clean heart and clear mind.

  • Struggles of Desires in a Hypersexual World
  • Dangers of Porn, Sexting & Fantasies
  • Guarding the Gaze & Protecting the Heart
  • Making Tawbah & Starting Clean
  • Delaying Gratification for Long-Term Barakah

5. Vision, Legacy & Long-Term Mindset

Helping young men think beyond romance — into responsibility, parenting, and what kind of legacy they want to leave behind.

  • Marriage as a Mission, Not Just a Milestone
  • Raising a Home That Raises the Ummah
  • From Lust to Legacy: What Are You Building?
  • Your Role as a Future Father & Leader
  • Writing Your Personal Marriage Vision
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